hi all ..
im back with my little precious baby heng.
finally baby heng is out to this world safe and healthy.
the labour pain is really unbearable and i opt for a c-section.
and i really very grateful that hubby heng is always by my side.
we went for the checkup on 28 april and gynae say my cervix is still not open.
so he will induce him out, at 12noon he put medicine in and we went home.
i can feel some pain but i still manage to take a nap.
wake up abt 2hours later and hubby heng went to buy ice cream for mi to eat and went ahma house for mahjong session. after mahjong session, we went back to bath, pack my bag and had dinner with jasmine and bingrong. around 9plus we took cab to Thomson Medical Centre prepare to admit. but hubby heng cannot stay with mi cos mine is a 2bedded room nt 1 bedded room, hubby heng wanna upgrade to 1bedded but i dun wan cos dun waste the money. went to the room, change to the night grown and wait for my gynae to be here. he came around 11pm plus and put the medicine in again and tml 8am we will have to go down to the labour ward. hubby heng left around 12 to 1am. i started to miss him. but i fell asleep after some crying :)
29 April 2010.
wake up around 6am and waiting for hubby heng to reach.
he reach around 7am and accompany mi eat breakfast. 8am we went down to the labour ward waiting for my gynae. he came in and say cervix only open 2cm, and he burst my waterbag and say he will be back at around 1pm. the contraction started, the nurse kept asking mi whether i need epidural but i dun want ... hubby heng is so worries and kept asking mi to go for c-section. but i dun wan .. and kept enduring the pain. around 12.30pm the nurse check and say my cervix did not open, still 2cm. omg ... i cant tahan the pain already den i opt for c-section. they get mi ready, and wait my gynae mr lawrence ang to be there. he reach around 1pm and everything is ready, my waist to my leg cant feel anything and hubby heng is sitting beside mi. very fast, less than 5mins baby heng came to this world :) i was so so so so happy. and hubby heng is busy taking photos of baby heng and my gynae help mi to sew my wound. before baby heng was push to weight, nurse let mi carry him, he looks just like mi, and i cant believe im a mother already. den i was push back to my ward nt long after and my mum and sister is there already. aftertat my parent in law and nai nai came, my brother too. baby heng look just mi, especially his mouth, haha. aftertat sokfong, xiumei, jasmine came. Aunty Alice, Aunty Jos, Sherona, Jarrel and Peizhen is here also. they left around 9plus and hubby heng left after making sure im ok ..
30 April 2010
hubby heng came at around 7plus bringing his breakfast.
cos my wound is so pain that he worries i cant eat breakfast by myself.
my breakfast came around 8am to 9am, and he was feeding mi. he make sure i finish everything and not to hungry myself. den i take a rest and so do him. aftertat my mum came around in the noon time. and accompany us till around 7pm and she went back home. nurse came and make mi stand up and walk around. and my wound is so feaking pain. hubby heng is alway by myside, making sure im safe and sound. hubby heng bring mi to the nursery room to see baby heng, but i feel so giddy and he bring mi back to my ward. sit and not long after baby heng is with us. he is very guai ... before hubby heng went back home, he push baby heng back and make sure im struck soundly in the bed.
1 May 2010
suddenly in the morning around 6am, i feel that my menses was overflowing. i quickly try all means to wake up, despite my painful wound. i went to the toilet and my whole sanitary pads and short was stain with blood. kaoz, faster clean up myself and use a towel to cover myself cos i nv bring enough of short. called hubby heng and he is still sleeping, ask mi to bring some short for mi and he came at around 7am feeling so tired. he fall asleep on the chair. aftertat carol and kok came, chitchatting and aftertat cally, nuyen and sijie came not long after. they are so busy entertaining baby heng. suddenly uncle 4 and aunty 4 with xiaogu is here, come and see baby and also help to bring those hampers back home for mi. so sweet of them. den hubby heng's da yi is here also, they left awhile after seeing baby heng. today is my grandma 80th birthday so hubby have to leave early to attend. so he left around 8pm and still he make sure im alright before he go back. :) i fell asleep around 9pm and nv answer hubby heng call, he was so worries that i faint in the toilet. den suddenly the hospital phone rang and i pick it up, it was him, hahah. he ask why i nv pick up the phone. so sweet of him :) after toking to him, i cant sleep as the lady beside my bed, snore damn loudly till i cant tahan, slept around 2am.
2 May 2010
Finally i can be discharge !!!!!
i wake up as early as 6plus am, clean myself and sitting down with my magazine.
breakfast came at 7am and i was busy eating. shortly baby heng was push to my ward.
i was so tense cos everytime i make sure hubby heng is with mi when baby heng is push here.
but hubby heng is not here yet. den baby heng cried, i was like ................. so confused, not knowing what to do, i carry him, he dun wan. mayb cos he did not saw his father. den when i carry him, i feel that he is shitting. bring him back to the nursery room den the nurse change for him. and put him in a corner. suddenly i feel so lost, without hubby heng. den faster called hubby heng whether he is coming already. he came shortly den settle everything and wait for daddy to come fetch us. finally we are back home ......
to hubby heng ...
i really very appreciate all the things you have done for mi .. and to be my side.
i cant imagine life without you .....
i will love u and baby heng with all my heart and soul always ...
i really thanks god that i can met you ....
i love u always
